we constantly and pathetically inacuratly assume that the thoughts of every passer-by are about us and negativly so...
so...
since passers-by are probobly not thinking about us at all...
i think...
it is a good self confidence booster to just assume they are thinking GOOD things about us.
instead of creating negative illusions from non exsistent opinions...
why dont we just create positive illusions from non exsitent opinions...
the feelings dont have anything to do with the other people anyway...
its all in our own sheads...
so all within out control...
so...
while every quick irrelivent glance froma stranger used to make you (me) feel like you were (i was) being judged and evaluated...
why dont you (i am starting to) assume that every look is a admiring envious one...
and i think your (my) days will be jollier as a result...
=)
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